Live Seminar

From Headaches to Handshakes

Dec 09, 2010
Nashville, Tennessee
1:15 pm - 5:00 pm

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Skills for Increasing Influence and Winning Cooperation

Why struggle so hard to get your way? This engaging program (formerly known as "Getting to Yes, and…") illuminates important elements used by influential lawyers to win cooperation. While logical reasoning is critical, this program explores the other two-thirds of persuasion—the subtleties of interaction that build the support you need.

Develop the style of the most persuasive lawyers
Reduce acrimony and enjoy an easier practice
Build the support you need

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1:00		Registration

1:15 - 2:15		An Atmosphere of Influence Influence is built on perception of trust and credibility. This section introduces four subtle yet powerful elements that change other people’s perceptions and set a more agreeable mood.

2:15 - 3:45		Getting Them to Say “Yes” Success in the practice of law depends on getting others to say “yes” to our proposals and requests. Clients and lawyers often become difficult when they perceive rejection of their ideas. This section presents the techniques of the most influential lawyers who rarely say “no,” and instead artfully re-direct discussions toward their own objectives.

3:45 - 4:00		Break

4:00 - 5:00		Transforming Difficult Conversations Opposing lawyers, clients and colleagues are more likely to listen to us if they feel they have been heard. In this section, lawyers learn the elements of influential listening and funnel questioning, and how to communicate with others in a way that invites professional support.

5:00		Adjourn

Jeffrey Stec

Jeffrey Stec, J.D. has been a licensed lawyer since 1992, having practiced in the area of complex-family matters, including estate, divorce, and child custody disputes. Jeff developed his collaborative skills by becoming a certified mediator and strategic planning facilitator, specializing in family issues. Jeff has developed an expertise in the collaborative resolution of disputes, and in addition to his work with The Likeable Lawyer, he is currently a sought-after consultant who works with non-profits and municipalities to fashion solutions to complex organizational and community issues. Jeffrey graduated with honors from the University of Michigan Law School, and earned a Bachelor of Arts in English with high honors from the University of Michigan.

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Credit Reporting

Our courses are approved in almost all states that have CLE requirements. Accreditation for a particular course will vary by state. Please use our CLE calculator for CLE credit available in your state. For more information, visit our FAQ.

"The value of this class is extremely high."

Kenneth A. Miller III,
Miller Law Offices PLLC

"A very interesting, insightful presentation. The seminar flew by."

Dan Pinkston,
U.S. Department of Justice

"Very interesting seminars with lots of useful concepts that can be utilized in my everyday dealings with people - both professionally and personally."

Mark Braun,
Baker & Hostetler

"Excellent aid in a high-stress environment. Very interesting and helpful. More importantly, it kept my attention. This guy offers quite a few insights that you might not ever think of."

David G. Utley,
Davis & Young

"This class will be very useful, giving great practical analysis of ways to communicate and persuade, and help move my positions along in all parts of my life, professionally and personally."

Michael Jaskolsky,
Quarles & Brady