Live Seminar

From Headaches to Handshakes

Oct 28, 2010
Colorado Springs, Colorado
1:15 pm - 5:00 pm

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Skills for Increasing Influence and Winning Cooperation

Why struggle so hard to get your way? This engaging program (formerly known as "Getting to Yes, and…") illuminates important elements used by influential lawyers to win cooperation. While logical reasoning is critical, this program explores the other two-thirds of persuasion—the subtleties of interaction that build the support you need.

Develop the style of the most persuasive lawyers
Reduce acrimony and enjoy an easier practice
Build the support you need

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1:00		Registration

1:15 - 2:15		An Atmosphere of Influence Influence is built on perception of trust and credibility. This section introduces four subtle yet powerful elements that change other people’s perceptions and set a more agreeable mood.

2:15 - 3:45		Getting Them to Say “Yes” Success in the practice of law depends on getting others to say “yes” to our proposals and requests. Clients and lawyers often become difficult when they perceive rejection of their ideas. This section presents the techniques of the most influential lawyers who rarely say “no,” and instead artfully re-direct discussions toward their own objectives.

3:45 - 4:00		Break

4:00 - 5:00		Transforming Difficult Conversations Opposing lawyers, clients and colleagues are more likely to listen to us if they feel they have been heard. In this section, lawyers learn the elements of influential listening and funnel questioning, and how to communicate with others in a way that invites professional support.

5:00		Adjourn

Jeffrey Stec

Jeffrey Stec, J.D. has been a licensed lawyer since 1992, having practiced in the area of complex-family matters, including estate, divorce, and child custody disputes. Jeff developed his collaborative skills by becoming a certified mediator and strategic planning facilitator, specializing in family issues. Jeff has developed an expertise in the collaborative resolution of disputes, and in addition to his work with The Likeable Lawyer, he is currently a sought-after consultant who works with non-profits and municipalities to fashion solutions to complex organizational and community issues. Jeffrey graduated with honors from the University of Michigan Law School, and earned a Bachelor of Arts in English with high honors from the University of Michigan.

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Credit Reporting

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"Very enlightening."

Randi Ordetx,
Attorney, New York Times

"It is hard to come up with something fresh in a negotiation course. This one offers several gems."

J. Stanton Curry,
Gallagher & Kennedy

"The content was excellent; different than any other CLE class I have taken and better. It provided extremely helpful training and actionable information that I can actually use in law, business and my personal life."

Robert Alexander Glenn,
Duke Energy

"A fresh look at aspects of the practice of law that can provide real day-to-day benefits."

Pat Leddy,
Jones Day

"This course offers very practical and easily implemented tools to improve your influence with others and the quality of your legal practice."

Darrin Jeffries,
Plattner, Schneidman & Schneider